Might there be any individual identity after death?

Imagine a mound of mud surrounded by water. Some water is also part of the mud, but still we can perceive the mud as an object with its own identity. Outside of a certain murky area the water also seems to be its own thing. But, around the mound lurks the murk, and the density and breadth of that area may be changing over time; the mound may also be taking in as well as divesting. It is communicating with something outside of itself. At what distance does the separation become complete? Well, perhaps nowhere unless we reach a desert. But at what point do we no longer recognize the water as part of the mound, despite containing mud, as an individual identity? Maybe the mud itself continues to identify for awhile. I suppose one can separate them entirely given the proper tools techniques and time. But, the water that was part of the mound might hang around the same area for awhile unless there is a particularly strong current, and even then… maybe it retains some sense of coherence and familiarity as it slowly merges with the crowd. Maybe it still has some taste of that muddy personality. Now think of the water as consciousness and the dirt as physical matter. And think of the mud as a metaphor that seemed for awhile like it might be going somewhere…

Gnat

Tiny black flyer,
we'll call him 'Gnat',
leaves the leaves
his decaying heaven beside the stream
to hang with me. 
to hang in the air
right between my eyes
Only distinguishable from the 
dangling shadowy spiders and small 
deep black spots in my eyeballs
by the independent motion.
(You have independent motion,
you may go...)
Maybe it's the glasses;
I don't need them to walk, but, you know,
The glorious beauty of the entire world is never enough.
One must check their phone occasionally.
So, walking and shooing, shoeing and swatting
Until annoyance mothers intention;
Stop, observe, and smash. 
The tiny corpse in the palm confirms the kill.
until
10s of yards later, there is another.
Right between the eyes.
We go through a similar tragic drama.
10s of yards down the path,
there's another.
At this point I think what if it's the same 
Gnat reborn, again and again, saying
"what was that all about?"
Maybe it's an old friend
who took a bad turn on the wheel of karma
what is the important message they are spending lifetimes trying to get across to me?
well, maybe there is no message. maybe it's just 
the pure animal attraction.
Relationships remain a mystery to me.

Helen says, “bye!”

Today was the anniversary of the death of my mother, Helen Ida (Smith) Chern. So, I have been a motherless child for 17 years. That is every bit as long as I was a child living (for the most part) with a mother. It is starting to sink in.

She really was a wonderful, magical person when she wasn’t under the shadow of her depression, illnesses, chronic fatigue, suicidal episodes, and a certain stubborn dramatic holding on to that state of mind once it had set in. I think that some of that was a desperate mechanism to get the rest of us to back off and leave her alone for a moment. Intellect really can be as much of a curse as a blessing. I guess we were a couple of the last of our kind, since I failed to pass along any genes. (as far as I know. as of yet. as they say.)

Then of course there was the decades long darkening shadows bringing on the decline of that intellect, ending finally in full-blown dementia. Though, once she had finally let go of all effort, she seemed as happy as I had ever seen her.

One of the last times I saw her in the hospital, I asked her if she knew who I was. Apparently you’re not supposed to ask that, but it didn’t seem to phase her. Maybe she did, maybe she didn’t. She might have been dodging the specifics. But, she replied, “Yes. You’re the love of my life.”

Now I can look back to my early childhood and see the vivacious, beautiful young version of her, prancing about the house singing during the chores when she wasn’t hating and being oppressed by them. “Today is Monday! Today is Monday…”

My Fabulous Academic Career part I a

from the overly forthcoming “Memoirs of an Escapist”

Nursery School: a drop-out from day one

I suppose it is not too surprising that I have a memory of, or a memory of a story about, my first day in “Nursery School.” Most of my early memories were burnt in by fear, shame and moments of blooming self-awareness. This experience of being suddenly forced at once into the midst of the hoi polloi and under the thumb of The System had elements of all of the above. In some strange way, the memories exist as simultaneously polar self-images: a very childish feeling of being overwhelmed and unprepared to cope, yet at the same time a sense of having moved into my adult self as I set myself apart from the children and in opposition to the Institution. The more adult self memory is navigating situations on its own. The infantile memory is having to interact with, and being viewed by, the adults.

I was somehow entering the class as the semester was already in progress. The teacher kindly offered me an out from a full-blown socialization melt-down by saying that since I was “The New Boy” I could just sit on the sidelines and observe. I readily accepted the title, and hoped to maintain the position of “New Boy” for the rest of my life. I set about my duties of non-participation with undetectable gusto, and continued to do so for days to come.

However there all too soon came the dreaded day when it became clear to the teacher that I was not about to become more comfortable, or be moved to leave my chair by the sight of all the “fun” the other children were having.

“But… I’m the NEW BOY!”, I protested.

“You can’t be The New Boy forever,” I was informed, to my everlasting dismay.

After this, all my memories become more dark and cloudy. I do remember one of the allegedly Fun Activities that we were expected to take part in, for it was emblematic to me of how the leaders were as dumb as their followers. The teacher had everyone get in a circle and prance around “like horses.” The teacher, who was probably actually a nice young Socialist girl and unfairly villainized in my memory, didn’t just let the children be horses after their own fashions but had to demonstrate how it should be done. She trotted along putting her head down and then throwing it back. “Like this!” I found this to be about the stupidest thing I had witnessed to date in my long somewhere around four years of life.

The final act of this dramatic episode was perhaps overlooked by most and forgotten by all but myself. To me it represented my first public protest; an evolutionary moment when had awareness of the situation and defined my relation to it, decidedly a source of pride to this day. The parents, staff and Administration all gathered on the last day of the ‘school’ year for a graduation ceremony. The little kiddies all marched up one by one to accept scrolls of paper while everyone cooed over how cute it was. I did not want to attain cuteness in such a cheap manner. I knew that we had not done anything for which we should be proud, we had not actually learned anything, and they were in fact really just laughing at and humiliating us with this condescension. I refused to go up and get my diploma. This pretty much set up the pattern for the rest of my life.

a bit of a berk

So, I awakened from a dream with most of the conversation dissolving into mist as they so often do, but I could still hear one of the characters saying, “Well, he’s kind of a berk, you know.”

Now, “berk” is not a word I have ever used, nor did I know the meaning or origin or proper spelling or if it was even really a word. So, why was this person in my dream saying it? I had a sense that it was some sort of English insult and felt compelled to look it up. Well, turns out I was right about spelling and country of origin; but from there it gets kind of complicated.

It involves “rhyming slang”, which I have never been able to get my head around. It is a secret language which apparently everyone knows in which a word is replaced with a longer phrase ending in a rhyme for the secret word. In this case it is further complicated by having turned into a shortened version of the phrase which does not even include the rhyme. The complete phrase is “Berkeley Hunt.” (The most famous of British fox hunts.)

Further, fahther, the meaning has become a milder insult than the word which it supposedly stands in for which is itself a much milder and more common epithet in England than in these parts, pardon the expression.

Know what I mean, Vern?

Tonight’s walk story

One, two, one, two, it shouldn’t be that hard. Left, right, left, right. Lub, dub, lub, dub. I’ve been hearing about that since I was a kid, at least since those nuts at Disney put out Hemo the Magnificent when I was 7. Flip, flap, flip, flap; a night runner goes by across the street to further illustrate and orchestrate.

A few blocks back, as I reminded myself to look at the dark sky and tree silhouettes and be more present, I remembered how I used to think about how painters never seemed to get that dark blue right, how it was my calling, how maybe I should get around to that again, I realized as my head was scratched by some low and naked tree limbs that maybe I was being present in the wrong place.

Lub, dub, lub, dub. I should be able to do that, been doing it all my life. Maybe this advanced poly-rhythm my heart started seeking, that may be tiring me and that the docs don’t like, is all part of the ascent to a higher realm. An existence further into the stratosphere of the fractal edges of the rhythm of life. If you look closely at those edges, zoom in, there’s always a basic pattern if you dig down far enough. It just seems like dissonance when so zoom out and see them all piled up and cramming in next to each other.

Another night walker at a tangent, as if to illustrate the obviousness of the tiring/weakening part, asks (just as I’m starting to compose this story in my head) if I’m alright. “Yeah, just at the end of three or four miles, trying to get home.” “Well, you’re almost there. Keep your head down and power through,” says he with a little fist pump. Yeah, I need to keep my head down while keeping my head up. And, it turns out, maybe I needed to hurt that side of my skull to balance out the aching and swelling on the other side of the head/face/teeth all day.

up,down, up, down…

I think I read this story about Elone when I was a kid

Something has been falling into place for me about Elong Musk that others don’t seem to be saying, at least not much or in the popular leftist commentaries I’m seeing. It appears that he is not just another rapacious capitalist, rampant narcissist and regular bully. He is all those things; but he is likely more: a true megalomaniac. He sees himself as a prophet. Nay, a saviour; first of ‘western civilization’ (which he is probably using as a euphemism) and further of humanity itself. The last hope for humanity given the doomed nature of this planet. He may well have had some science-fiction fueled revelations while on major psychedelic trips. I can relate to that. I would have saved humanity myself a couple of times if I had seen a way to gather the resources. He, however, does see a way to control all the leftover resources of the doomed planet and shoot humanities seed into space. Or, maybe just his seed. This could be why he keeps causing all these women to push out his progeny. He envisions the universe being populated with his superior DNA. First Mars, then the stars.

another episode, same old characters

I had a remarkable unplanned encounter
with my old sweetheart the Moon;
I was just heading back from the usual little 
walk down the hill to the store.
Barely a few houses up Olentangy Street
I happened to look up for a glance;
But my look was captured, our lights were linked
and my feet froze to the cement.

Heavy cloud cover seemed to part
just in that one bright circle.
And though the dark grey continued to roll
from the south, with a chill breeze in step
down here below, we both stood engaged
the dark edge would advance but at last moment part
just enough to leave that one circle uncovered
slowly growing as stretched by our gaze.

I stood waiting for coverage, but the parting went on
Until a larger space shown with clear blue around
and subtle grey circles in the overall black
radiated out an enlarging sphere pattern.

Although the moon has promised to help
my vision if I remember to gaze
there still was a little lack of focus
and double-vision projection below.
This made it seem like the moon had a chin
and the space in-between gave it a grin.
As the moons parted and the old familiar
features of my friend sharpened, the double
moved down into a long white beard.

Eventually, of course, the chill of the sidewalk
Moved up through both the thin soles and thick socks
And I had to break off and move along, dizzy.
When I looked up again, the features were blurring
And the blue space was smaller, though it grew as I watched.
We continued this way as I went up the hill.
As the walking got longer, moon's features grew dimmer;
angry memories returned of the last time we talked,
and the words that as usual got stuck inside me.
Looking up from the bridge at the top of the hill
dark black swirls had moved to the fore.

another night or day

I got to a pretty good state for awhile yesterday waking up after midnight and going from the endless night of despair into the day instead of trying to get up in the afternoon in despair and seeing things just get darker.

I thought maybe I was on the right track. But, waking up at 3 a.m. today (a favorite time of day) it seems just too dark. I think I was having one of those dreams that was just a true and graphic account of my lack of place in the world. Maybe it was better yesterday when it was all running and hiding and people being shot in the head.

But the part I remember was ending on a somewhat lighter side of trouble. After all, I found a place to pee for a change (well, it was off a sidewalk, but I didn’t think anyone was around), and did so quite easily. (I thought maybe because my penis was particularly short at the time.) So the walk was going along okay into the grey color field, skies and sidewalks and buildings.

But a vehicle starts pacing me, then falls behind, and someone is talking.. I have to turn around to see that it’s a cop car. What luck. He wants to know what’s going on or something, I say “you tell me. what do you want?” Well, it turns out he doesn’t say anything about indecent exposure, or anything of a legal nature as far as I can tell. He’s just harassing me about my life in general, and leading to, “You let yourself go bald.” As I was trying to say in a scoffing tone (don’t talk back to the cops, kids) “That’s not something one has much choice about” I woke up. And here we are, with the imaginary correspondents again.